{"id":12,"date":"2015-12-08T04:37:49","date_gmt":"2015-12-08T04:37:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/?p=12"},"modified":"2015-10-19T03:02:10","modified_gmt":"2015-10-19T03:02:10","slug":"what-to-do-when-youre-unsure-of-what-your-partner-likes-sexually","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/what-to-do-when-youre-unsure-of-what-your-partner-likes-sexually\/","title":{"rendered":"What to Do When You&#8217;re Unsure of What Your Partner Likes Sexually"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><figure id=\"attachment_291\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-291\" style=\"width: 360px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/WHAT-YOUR-PARTNER-LIKES-SEXUALLY_01.jpg\" alt=\"Starting A New Relationship Is Not Like In The Movies\" width=\"360\" height=\"260\" class=\"size-full wp-image-291\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-291\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Starting A New Relationship Is Not Like In The Movies<\/figcaption><\/figure>Having a new sexual partner is one of the best feelings in the world. Everything is new and exciting, you want to have sex all the time, and you go off at a single touch. But once that new excitement cools down, you end up finding each other\u2019s buttons and things keep a steady simmer going. But what happens when you keep pressing the wrong buttons? Hell, you might not even know where their buttons are. People are not as simple as movies make them seem. They have different fetishes and fantasies; nothing feels the same to two people. If you can\u2019t seem to figure out what it is that you\u2019re doing wrong, we\u2019re here to help. You don\u2019t have to spend all of your intimate time together blundering around in the dark hoping that suddenly you\u2019ll create a spark. To figure out what it is that sets them off, keep reading.<br \/>\n<iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/JdaNmF-vtnc\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2>Experiment<\/h2>\n<p><figure id=\"attachment_293\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-293\" style=\"width: 360px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/WHAT-YOUR-PARTNER-LIKES-SEXUALLY_02.jpg\" alt=\"Watch Your Partner&#039;s Reaction To Your Touch\" width=\"360\" height=\"260\" class=\"size-full wp-image-293\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-293\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Watch Your Partner&#8217;s Reaction To Your Touch<\/figcaption><\/figure>It\u2019s not the sexiest thing to suddenly ask them what they like in bed. It\u2019s awkward and can sort of take the romance out of things. Instead of being so blunt, you may feel more comfortable just trying new things out. The important part of exploring their body and trying different moves with them is to watch their reactions while it\u2019s happening. While it can definitely be hard to focus when you yourself are all worked up, it beats asking afterwards. The old saying goes that, \u201cif you have to ask, it wasn\u2019t good\u201d. Don\u2019t be a bother and ask if they like that every few minutes. Keep an eye out for facial cues and body tensing. These classically mean that yes, you should keep doing that. For men and women alike, once you\u2019ve got it, just keep going. Switching things up as it\u2019s getting good can definitely kill an orgasm. <\/p>\n<h2>Sneak<\/h2>\n<p>This is mostly when you\u2019re trying to find out what a man likes, and it\u2019s not the most honest. You may end up feeling hurt by comparing yourself to ideals that you\u2019ll never reach, but that\u2019s because they\u2019re porn stars. That\u2019s right, you can always look at his porn history. You\u2019ll get every sexual secret out of him but you may not be able to do all of them for him. This will just give you an idea of what you should try next time. <\/p>\n<h2>Ask<\/h2>\n<p><figure id=\"attachment_294\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-294\" style=\"width: 360px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/WHAT-YOUR-PARTNER-LIKES-SEXUALLY_03.jpg\" alt=\"You Could Just Ask.. And Find Out What Your Partner Likes In Bed\" width=\"360\" height=\"260\" class=\"size-full wp-image-294\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-294\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">You Could Just Ask.. And Find Out What Your Partner Likes In Bed<\/figcaption><\/figure>The absolute best approach is to just ask. Again, it\u2019s not the sexiest thing at the time, but in the long run you avoid all of those awkward nights and dodge the chance at a failed relationship. If you\u2019re not sexually compatible then there\u2019s no chance you\u2019ll stay together. Take the initiative and practice the things that they like. You can even make it sexy by having a student\/teacher night in. You get to be the eager student and they get to lie back and direct you on everything that feels good to them. In no time you\u2019ll be acing the course.  But aside from the classroom analogies, you really will feel like you know your partner more intimately and you\u2019ll have a much higher chance at keeping your relationship alive. <\/p>\n<p>It can be really tough not knowing what your partner wants. You may feel like a failure or like you used to know them better, but just keep an open mind to their suggestions. That way you won\u2019t get offended and sex will be better for both of you. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Having a new sexual partner is one of the best feelings in the world. Everything is new and exciting, you want to have sex all the time, and you go off at a single touch. But once that new excitement cools down, you end up finding each other\u2019s buttons and things keep a steady simmer going. But what happens when you keep pressing the wrong buttons? Hell, you might not even know where their buttons are. People are not as simple as movies make them seem. They have different fetishes and fantasies; nothing feels the same to two people. If you can\u2019t seem to figure out what it is that you\u2019re doing wrong, we\u2019re here to help. 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