{"id":20,"date":"2015-10-28T04:43:06","date_gmt":"2015-10-28T04:43:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/?p=20"},"modified":"2015-10-19T02:59:36","modified_gmt":"2015-10-19T02:59:36","slug":"sex-mistakes-you-should-make-every-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/sex-mistakes-you-should-make-every-time\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex Mistakes You Should Make Every Time"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Get Some Excitement Into The Relationship<\/figcaption><\/figure>Porn plays a huge role in what we imagine sex should be like. It should be serious, it should be intense. It should definitely go right the first time. Porn plays a big part in building up nervousness before your first time taking a tumble with a new partner. Will I perform well? Will they enjoy themselves? What happens if I mess up? That nervousness is a mistake in and of itself, and one I would recommend minimizing as much as possible. While nervousness may not be the most advisable mistake to make with a new partner, there are a few that I\u2019d not only say aren\u2019t mistakes, but I\u2019d encourage you to make with your partner to be. They may even help you with that nervousness problem.<\/p>\n

Laugh<\/h2>\n

Whether they\u2019ve said something you think is funny, slipped off of you, missed the mark or accidentally brushed a tickle spot, you wouldn\u2019t be the first person to bite your lip and try not to laugh to avoid making your date feel awkward. Don\u2019t resist the urge. Laughing is a great way to dispel tension and nervousness, something that definitely tends to accumulate your first time with a new sex partner. Just make sure you aren\u2019t laughing at them. Say something like \u201cYou found a tickle spot!\u201d or do it while encouraging them to try again. Help them back up, switch positions to give them better access to whatever it is they were trying to do, or offer some advice on how to pull it off more successfully. No one knows your body better than you, after all. And hopefully they join in too as a quick acknowledgement of your previous nervousness and then you can get on with it a lot more comfortably.<\/p>\n

Ask Your Partner What They Want<\/h2>\n

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Ask For Consent And Enjoy The Sex<\/figcaption><\/figure>In porn you never hear a partner ask permission to do something. There\u2019s never a moment when they ask if they\u2019re going to like it if they go down on them, or flip them over for some doggy style penetrative sex. They always just seem to know and their partners always seem to enjoy whatever it is that\u2019s going on. This sends the message that we\u2019re supposed to just intuitively know what our partners are going to enjoy in bed and makes us feel like asking them is admitting to some kind of failure. \u201cI don\u2019t know what I\u2019m supposed to be doing, so now I\u2019m a loser and I\u2019m just going to ask you for instructions.\u201d<\/p>\n

In point of fact, asking your partner what they do and don\u2019t like is one of the best things you can do before you slide between the sheets. It tells your partner that you care about what they want and need, and if done right can even make for some cheek-warming dirty talk before the deed itself. It\u2019s a great way to set the mood and also a fantastic method for maximizing the sexy once you actually get down to the deed.
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