{"id":40,"date":"2015-08-16T04:53:09","date_gmt":"2015-08-16T04:53:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/?p=40"},"modified":"2015-10-19T02:48:45","modified_gmt":"2015-10-19T02:48:45","slug":"research-or-stalking-how-to-when-youre-going-too-far","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/research-or-stalking-how-to-when-youre-going-too-far\/","title":{"rendered":"Research or Stalking: How to When You\u2019re Going Too Far"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Do Not Become The Stalker In Her Life<\/figcaption><\/figure>Wanting to learn more about a lady so that you can catch her attention<\/a> is great. Unfortunately, sometimes men go way too far with wanting to know about a woman that they actually end up stalking her. When you shift from being interested in a woman to obsessing over her<\/a>, nothing good will ever come of it. Worst of all, she will quickly realize what you\u2019re doing, and she will want to stay away from you at all costs. If you want to successfully date a woman, you need to know the difference between whether you\u2019re learning about her, or whether you\u2019re stalking her. <\/p>\n

You Follow All of Her Social Media Accounts (But You Check Up On Everyone She Interacts With)<\/h2>\n

A great way to learn more about the lady that you\u2019re interested in is to follow her social media accounts. You can learn the things she loves and hates. You can also learn what type of guy she\u2019s looking for. Finding out all of this can give you a better chance of catching her interest<\/a>. When you follow her social media sites and interact with her, the two of you can gradually grow closer together. She may even realize that you\u2019re exactly the type of guy that she\u2019s been looking for. Everything could work out perfectly. But everything could also backfire horribly for you. <\/p>\n

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Interact With Her Online<\/figcaption><\/figure>When you\u2019re following a woman\u2019s social media sites, you shouldn\u2019t be checking up on the other people that she is interacting with. When you do this, you move from being a guy that is innocently interested in her, to someone who is stalking her to see what the competition is like. Checking up on her friends and reading every posted online conversation that she has had is a huge indicator that you are stalking her. What would make it even worse is if you use whatever conversation she\u2019s had with someone else to your benefit. For example, if you read (via a conversation she had with someone else) that she was trying to find a certain book, and then you go out and spend $30 for this book, and then mention it on your own social media site without letting her know that you read her conversation, it is a horrible way to trick her. When you do this, you\u2019re no longer trying to learn about her. You\u2019re simply trying to manipulate her. <\/p>\n

You\u2019ve Figured Out Her Schedule (And Make Sure That You\u2019re Always Conveniently Running Into Her)<\/h2>\n

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Stop Always \u201cAccidentally\u201d Running Into Her<\/figcaption><\/figure>Another sign that you\u2019ve moved from being interested to being obsessed is when you\u2019ve learned her schedule, and you make it a habit of always \u201caccidentally\u201d running into her. Doing things like listening to her conversation to find out where she will be, and then making sure that you are there the same time she is creepy and definitely fits the stalker bill<\/a>. If you start doing this often, it won\u2019t take her long to figure out what you are up to. She may even confront you about it. If she\u2019s too afraid to do that, she may report you to the authorities, and then try to get a restraining order on you.
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