{"id":54,"date":"2015-09-16T05:04:20","date_gmt":"2015-09-16T05:04:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/?p=54"},"modified":"2015-10-19T02:54:35","modified_gmt":"2015-10-19T02:54:35","slug":"how-to-date-more-than-one-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/how-to-date-more-than-one-person\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Date More Than One Person"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><figure id=\"attachment_352\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-352\" style=\"width: 360px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Date-More-Than-One-Person_01.jpg\" alt=\"Share The Love\" width=\"360\" height=\"260\" class=\"size-full wp-image-352\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-352\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Share The Love<\/figcaption><\/figure>Now it seems like as soon as you go out on one date with a person you\u2019re suddenly boyfriend and girlfriend. Everyone makes a fuss about it and it has to become official on all of your social media sites. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vogue.com\/872413\/love-facebook-relationship-status\/\" target=\"_blank\">When you should change your relationship status<\/a>. But that\u2019s not how it\u2019s always been. Back in the day you could date more than one person at a time and no one thought anything of it. While you did try to stay semi-serious about each one, you didn\u2019t throw yourself into monogamy because of it. Luckily, no one outlawed dating more than one person at the same time. You don\u2019t have to stick the crowds, you can serial date all you want. Go <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/kim-rosenberg\/signs-you-might-be-a-seri_b_5648088.html\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a> to learn if you are a serial dater. It just takes a few easy steps to avoid committal. <\/p>\n<h2>Be Very, Very Clear<\/h2>\n<p><figure id=\"attachment_353\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-353\" style=\"width: 360px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Date-More-Than-One-Person_02.jpg\" alt=\"Dating For Fun\" width=\"360\" height=\"260\" class=\"size-full wp-image-353\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-353\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Dating For Fun<\/figcaption><\/figure>It cannot be stressed enough that when you go out with someone or you\u2019re making plans to do so that you have to be clear with them about your intentions. Many people are dating for love, so they expect a lot more when you go out with them. More like falling in love. Tell them up front that you\u2019re just looking to have fun and date around a little bit. You\u2019re willing to keep things frisky and exciting and if you have genuine feelings you won\u2019t lie about it, but otherwise you\u2019re not looking for a boy or girlfriend. They may feel a little bit hurt, but it\u2019s a lot better than when you\u2019re out on the fifth date and they suddenly ask you to stay theirs. It makes for a lot of awkward conversation and a weird semi breakup. Just don\u2019t do it.<br \/>\n<iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/90Zx_3UBXdM\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2>Keep Everything Organized<\/h2>\n<p><figure id=\"attachment_354\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-354\" style=\"width: 360px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Date-More-Than-One-Person_03.jpg\" alt=\"Be Honest About Your Dating History\" width=\"360\" height=\"260\" class=\"size-full wp-image-354\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-354\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Be Honest About Your Dating History<\/figcaption><\/figure>While you\u2019re being honest about what you\u2019re doing, it doesn\u2019t make anyone feel any better knowing that they aren\u2019t the only ones in your lives. Calling them the wrong name is a huge deal, and talking about things that you actually experienced with someone else can only serve to remind them that you\u2019re not waiting around for love to find you too. They feel left out and want to leave the situation. Avoid that by keeping everything very organized. <a href=\"http:\/\/money.usnews.com\/money\/personal-finance\/articles\/2014\/12\/05\/8-tools-to-organize-your-life-in-2015\" target=\"_blank\">Few ways<\/a> to better organize your life. Sure, you can\u2019t help it if you already told them the same story three times because you thought that they weren\u2019t the date you talked to last or if you forget that they actually are the one that hates strawberries. However, you can keep a detailed list of your schedule and where they fit on it. That way you don\u2019t text one person and tell them that you\u2019ll be late when in a matter of fact you didn\u2019t plan on seeing them at all. If you\u2019re really into it why not <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/Keep-a-Diary-and-Stick-to-It\" target=\"_blank\">keep a diary<\/a> of what everyone talked about last time that you saw them? Then you can study up and make sure that no streams are crossing when they shouldn\u2019t be. <\/p>\n<h2>Keep It Need to Know<\/h2>\n<p>Kissing and telling is highly looked down upon, and the same goes for dating. No one wants to know what you\u2019re doing with your other dates or how you feel about them. The person sitting in front of you is your date, not your counselor. So keep some info to yourself. It keeps people from getting hurt and from you having to explain yourself over and over. <\/p>\n<h2>Give Them Your All<\/h2>\n<p><figure id=\"attachment_355\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-355\" style=\"width: 360px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Date-More-Than-One-Person_04.jpg\" alt=\"Don&#039;t Kiss And Tell\" width=\"360\" height=\"260\" class=\"size-full wp-image-355\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-355\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Don&#8217;t Kiss And Tell<\/figcaption><\/figure>If you do choose to date this way then know that it takes a lot of energy. It\u2019s not all having sex with hot people, it\u2019s about committing your all to each date and <a href=\"http:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/shauna-robinson\/2014\/07\/18-little-things-a-guy-can-do-to-make-his-girlfriend-feel-special\/\" target=\"_blank\">making them feel happy<\/a>, too.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Now it seems like as soon as you go out on one date with a person you\u2019re suddenly boyfriend and girlfriend. Everyone makes a fuss about it and it has to become official on all of your social media sites. When you should change your relationship status. But that\u2019s not how it\u2019s always been. Back in the day you could date more than one person at a time and no one thought anything of it. While you did try to stay semi-serious about each one, you didn\u2019t throw yourself into monogamy because of it. Luckily, no one outlawed dating more than one person at the same time. You don\u2019t have to stick the crowds, you can serial date all you [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":355,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[4,7,118,6,116,8,117,3],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=54"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":356,"href":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54\/revisions\/356"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/355"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bangforfun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=54"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}