As a guy, we’re programmed to go out and get the girl. But that’s about as far as it goes when it comes to instructions on whether the girl is got or not. Women these days are just as empowered as men are about who they choose to date, or whether they’re just going to take you home and let you be hers for the night. The signals can be mixed, that’s true, but there are quite a few hints that tell you if you’re going to get lucky or not. Here’s how to tell if she’ll take you home tonight.
She Buys You a Drink
Oh my, how the tables have turned. The traditional take on this is that the guy approaches, buys her a drink, and then she accepts it and does one of two things. Go here to learn proper drink ordering etiquette. Hopefully she’ll stick around and talk long enough to get charmed. If not, she takes the drink and leaves. It’s not the nicest thing, but it happens far too often. When she steps up and asks to buy you a drink she is being majorly forward by taking on this traditional masculine role. She is clearly telling you that she wants to keep you around long enough to talk to you. It’s nice, huh?
Body language is always the biggest signal in regard to what she’s thinking. If her body is turned toward you and her extremities follow suit then you know that’s a good sign. Her knees are in your direction as are her arms and legs, all the more close by the fact that she’s leaning into you. She’s looking you in the face and makes plenty of eye contact while you’re together, too. Eye contact is her way of telling you that she respects you and finds you interesting. Learn how to read her eye. These are all positive signs that she’s into what’s going on here. And that she probably wants more.
What does she do when she laughs? If she’s throwing her head back and touching your arm, you know that she’s interested. When someone wants something more, they’re going to make subtle gestures, like touching the forearms or thighs. This is a way to bridge the gap between the two of you. Your body is also going to pick up on this and respond accordingly. Try to mirror her actions and touch her lower back and legs. If you caress her forearms it’s a little bit weird, though. If she lets you do this then you’re definitely doing well here.
What Is She Saying?
While there’s more going on in her subtext, keep in mind that what she’s saying is important too. Complimenting you on things like your eyes and smile are major signals that she finds you attractive. But not just like, attractive passing her on the street. She’s used to men saying the same things to her, so putting that into practice again takes the more dominant position in telling you that you’re sexually appealing to her.
Whoops, There Goes Her Shirt
Okay, so it’s not quite that dramatic, but when a woman accidentally on purpose shows you some skin, it’s a definite flirt tactic. She might be pulling it down to show you a tattoo or something cute on her bra, whatever it is, that’s just an excuse. She wants to show you more later on. Another popular tactic is comparing underwear or showing off a piercing. If this happens, definitely indulge by pretending to match. Pull up your shirt and say something like, “Oh I don’t have any tattoos, I just thought you’d like a show.” It doesn’t matter if it’s lame, you’re in.
The big finale is splitting a ride at the end of the night. Read more from a woman’s point of view. Getting a cab together would be odd if you weren’t planning on going home together. Why not just take it all the way and propose another drink in a comfier place?